What Makes A Successful Escort?

It’s a hard question. A typical misunderstanding is that only gorgeous women make money. Beauty is very subjective. And more notably, numerous ladies do not recognize that outer beauty, alone, is merely not enough to become a wholesomely desirable woman. No matter how desirable a woman may be, one can never appeal to all. Succeeding and making good money are extremely temporal for an escort, and extremely susceptible to change. Even when females have the ability to make great deals of money for a time period, it does not indicate they are necessarily effective with clients nor does it mean they are guaranteed an effective future. There is a great deal of escorts who might seem ‘effective’ for the moment, yet what outsiders do not see is that, behind the scenes, she may extremely well have little prospects for the future. In my opinion, being a successful escort suggests establishing an excellent regular client and working towards an alternative career, due to the fact that this corresponds to long term success in a more emotionally wholesome environment.

Usually, girls who make lots of money are hustlers. Which indicates they chase after cash at all the several scales of ‘high-class’ escorting, and they basically make escorting their life (ie: they work full-time and are often willing to work at all hours of the day). However, while working full-time can equate to lots of cash, I’d argue that working continuously is a dish for short-term success just.

Working full-time is challenging by any means, and there are usually alarming implications. A woman may make a lot of money for a period of time, yet it does not mean she will continue to be successful endlessly. What makes an escort successful versus just how much cash she’s made are not the exact same thing. One lady I know (who worked for 24 Hours Escorts Amsterdam lived quite a luxurious lifestyle. You’d think that she’s making $1000+ US dollars per hour. In reality, she does a mixture of jobs catering to clients of all rate-scales. She operates in a brothel-like establishment in the day-time. This pays her around $240 per hour (the business takes $70 dollars.), which seems very low. Then she promotes and does personal out-calls/incalls for a much greater cost. She works every day, and like lots of other full-time escorts, she, unfortunately, usage drugs and alcohol to reduce the emotional impact. Yes, one can make great deals of cash by working full-time, but at what expense? Short-term goals of making fast-money typically have unfavourable implications, physically and psychologically. I cannot communicate the number of escorts I met who compromised their mind, body, and soul for quick, quick money– from extremely short-lived model to drug addicted, disfigured ladies in an extremely brief span. Drug/substance addictions and the resulting physical/mental damage is a reality for numerous prostitutes who are not mindful in how they work within this market. Unfortunately, numerous females who end up in this awful fate had no alternative of choice– too often women get lured by mass exploitation and false promises within the sex industry. Aside from being susceptible to alcohol and drugs, working too often can likewise make an escort harden, or burn out, faster. Simply put, working too often will make her experiences with clients more rigid, and for that reason her possibilities of establishing wholesome, routine clients will be stated. One need to modest themselves and realize that lots of ladies are not offered the option to work less– everybody has different situations. I personally recommend working less, if that’s an alternative. When a female can end up being established as an independent sex girl hotel kuala lumpur, I advise working less at greater rates to a choose clients. And finally, I worry the importance of balancing one’s life with clients and other things they delight in (outside of their work).

* I ought to also note that many ‘classy’ escorts release the facade of wealth/luxury, when in reality they are investing all of their income on designer goods to promote their image. She might be bringing Chanel bags, but it doesn’t indicate she succeeds or rich. Paradoxically, the guideline I gained from my observations is that anybody who makes remarkable effort to take pride in their ‘success’ or material gains is, in fact, using boasting to mask their deep insecurities and low self-confidence. It is really simple for an escort to have a low sense of self, as wealth and ‘success’ with customers are incredibly fragile. In my viewpoint, a successful escort is one who is moderate in her spending and humble; she conserves a lot or invests into a home and/or education, since she’s mindful that she cannot sell herself forever.

Very expensive ladies are not always more ‘worthy’ than a woman with more moderate hourly rates. As mentioned, many escorts are often working at multiple rate scales. For example, the exact same escort who markets for $800.00 dollars per hour is also most likely working for $200.00 an hour. The escorting industry simply exploits the truth that some guys will pay a great deal of money for a woman who is apparently “greater” class. The distinction in cost is not constantly reflective of the quality of the girl, however rather it is merely marketing and the overall economics of the particular city. Quality can exist. There are women who set their rates higher than average, and can supply a more ‘quality’ experience as they are more selective with their clientele and, perhaps, work less frequently– in all cases, from the customers end, seeing escorts is constantly a gamble.

In general, a lot of women I met are accommodating 2 types of customers: (1) customers who see private/independent escorts just, and (2) ‘brothel rats,’ clients (as they called them), or men who visit whorehouse facilities only. Overall, escorts do not all operate in the same manner, and many women develop their own preferences on where, when and how to work. What is comfortable for one woman is different than other. Generally, ladies work in scenarios associated with their level of comfort. For instance, a lot of ‘elite’ escorts choose the brothel/agency settings rather than working separately.

For myself, personally, I have actually never ever been a hustler in the sense of working full-time. I have always worked part-time as an escort, at my own leisure and convenience. Despite working part-time, I make a generous income for working so infrequently, and I am satisfied with having enough to live comfortably, and establishing some savings gradually. I don’t wish to ‘hustle’ and work full-time as an expert escort, due to the fact that I have seen how many escorts over-work themselves and resultantly stress out. Again, I have to be so thankful that I can have the luxury of being able to work less and live relatively well– some women aren’t as lucky, and are sort of compelled to work full-time.

What Women are Most in Demand?


From my observations, there are a few characteristics that drive guys wild. Yet once again, one need to bear in mind that desires are so varied, so I always suggested escorts to be themselves.

A stunningly gorgeous lady who’s brand-new to the sex industry or a specific place (or city) will likely be popular at first. However, once she’s slept with the men who were curious about her … she will only continue to be successful if she has the brains or sexual confidence to match.

For the most part, clients desire good sex and good companionship. I have actually seen numerous stunning ladies who get extremely confident in their first months, only to be stunned why they don’t have any regulars. Outer charm, alone, has nothing to do with developing a true connection with a worthy, wholesome customer.

Another fascinating thing I’ve observed is the POWER of chemistry and scents. I genuinely think this, as I have observed this constantly. Working in an establishment, I’ve seen women who don’t actually get picked, however suddenly one day they are constantly being picked. During the days where I operated in an establishment, I have actually noticed that particular times during my regular monthly cycle that men were passing away to devour me. There are times I barely wear makeup and feel sleepy, yet every man I meet wants to book with me. I could be totally concealed, yet in some way men spotted my monthly ‘ripeness.’ I recall memories of working where every customer was eagerly licking, kissing and tasting my entire body– as if my body was emitting an intoxicating, tasty scent. Normally this is around my ovulation duration, and possibly I am feeling most horny at this time (in some way the men can detect it– the heat of my body).

Likewise, at times when I was exceptionally stressed, I was no longer the ‘belle de jour’ at the brothel. The very first times I began to fail in my bookings (otherwise called burnout) was when I began quarrelling often with my ex-fiance. The majority of the quarrelling was due to the fact that I wasn’t sure the ‘normal’ relationship path was in fact what I wanted. The constant fighting made me either not sleep at all, over oversleep … which gave birth to dark circles and puffy eyes when I was 22. Stress is the WORST recipe for being an escort. It does not matter how beautiful you are, but if you are stressed and needing to make money (and feeling animosity towards men at the same time)… don’t even bother!

I remember meeting a really gorgeous escort a few months ago. She was new the industry. She was quite attractive. I told her that she would be really popular because she was quite pretty. To her dismay, she only had 1 client during her 7 hour shift. This shows that STRESS alone can kill off the chemicals that men are attracted too. She told me she was desperate to make money, as she had a child and was extremely stressed about her money situation. I told her she needs to relax and feel good … and that hopefully next shift her ease will reflect more clients. In essence, chemicals are very powerful in attraction.

Who are the most popular girls?

Again, it’s a perception. A girl can be popular for periods of time, but as mentioned before … even the most beautiful girl will go from being popular to just having her regulars and a consistent flow. Again, it really depends, as all escorts are unique individuals. I, myself, was one of the ‘popular’ girls at the brothel, which means I was often chosen by clients. As an independent escort, the dynamics are different, because now, I choose from the pool of clients who contact me. I am always thankful that I have been a desired woman in this industry. As clients would tell me, I have both beauty and intellect. I am chosen for both reasons, but at other times it’s one or the other. Apart from my admired big boobs and shapely backside, I retain a bit of elegance in my mannerisms, dress and speech also, so many clients express how this attracted them and made them feel at ease. Presentation plays an important role in what sort of clients an escort will attract. If I had a rude personality and presented myself as purely flesh, I would certainly attracted a different clientele (the kind I wouldn’t like).

Girls who are quite sought after can be many things. One popular lady I knew was an escort I developed a crush on. I remember the first day meeting her and thinking she wasn’t that pretty. She was in her 30’s, and was quite popular with respectable clients. Once I heard her beautiful voice and getting to see her mannerisms, I became mesmerized by her– I had never met a woman like her before. She was different from anyone I had ever met, and for the first time in my life I found an escort I could admire. After getting to know her, I found her to be strikingly beautiful (inside and out). I could see what drew men to her … she had such an intoxicating persona, genuine and loving. She was extremely intelligent, sincerely sweet, and I suppose her age gave her a natural sex appeal (her and I shared clients, so I discovered she was quite ‘tuned’ with her sexuality). This woman actually changed my entire concept of beauty. Initially, I hardly noticed her, but after seeing the beauty of her inner-self, I became immensely attracted to her in every sense. What society tells us to desire in terms of beauty is NOT necessarily beauty, especially if it’s only shallow.

In my city, the most popular girls vary. I’ve noticed there is always a huge demand for rare women who aren’t typically found in the business: For instance, if there is a lack of certain ethnic escorts in some areas, then these women can be popular due to their rareness. Again, it truly varies, because there is so much diversity in what is desirable within the sex industry.