It’s easy to get burned trying to find local sex. Let’s get that out of the way. Now, of course, the most common scenario is when a website is complete and total bullshit.

That’s right. There are no shortage of scam, fraudulent and otherwise bogus websites on the internet. It just goes with the territory. That’s just the way it goes. That’s the nature of the beast.

But aside from the scamming and lies and deception, there is one other area that you need to explore. This other source of disappointment is all too real. In fact, it’s all too familiar. And if you continue to turn a blind eye to this, it will fuck you up over and over again.

What the hell am I talking about? I’m talking about you. That’s right. Your own internal biases, your own internal mindsets and your own internal assumptions and expectations can work to undermine and otherwise degrade your efforts at trying to find local sex.

You see, local sex is not much different from finding a job. Really. You’re using a database, you are investigating leads, you’re sending messages. It takes a lot of focus. It takes a lot of discipline. You have to be consistent. You have to be persistent. And all of this goes back to what you choose to believe about yourself.

If you think that finding local sex is just a matter of taking or receiving, then chances are, you will fail. Why? Eventually, you will run out of passion. Eventually, you will no longer be horny. Eventually, it will no longer be about you. So if your main focus is you, then it’s going to all fall apart.

So what is the winning strategy? Well, for me, personally, it’s more sustainable if you cultivate that part of yourself that wants to pleasure women. In other words, it’s about their pleasure. Click here to check it out.

You get off seeing them orgasm. You get off on seeing them released from their fucked up backgrounds and messed up upbringings and other sexual hang ups. It brings you pleasure to see a woman groan and grunt because, for the longest time, she has been repressing all that shit.

If you’re able to operate from that perspective, then you would be able to not only go a long time without any local sex because hey, let’s face it, there’s a lot of rejection out there, but you will also become a better lover because it’s all about persistence. It’s all about constantly stepping up your game and becoming better and better at it.

Look at it as an art. When somebody starts out as a writer, they probably can’t string two clauses together. It’s very choppy, it’s all fucked up, but as they invest more and more passion in what they are doing, they become better. It’s like painting, singing, dancing. So look at your efforts at trying to find local sex as an art. It’s a form of personal expression.